Diagnostic anchor
You don't need hope — you need clarity.
This frame evaluates whether your relationship is trending repairable, unstable, or failing—across the dimensions that actually predict outcomes, not vibes.
Clinical frame
Salvage probability is not about optimism. It is about whether the structure of the bond—communication reliability, emotional safety, trust integrity, partner investment—can support repair at this intensity.
- Repairable — rupture exists but repair windows still open.
- Unstable — repair attempts don’t land; cycles harden.
- Failing — safety, respect, or investment has crossed non-negotiable thresholds.
Assessment dimensions
Score bands
Illustrative bands for orientation—your full assessment personalizes weighting and evidence.
Emotionally: Repair capacity and safety are mostly intact; issues are more situational than structural.
Practically: Prioritize maintenance: rituals, repair after conflict, and clear agreements.
Emotionally: Strain is real, but motivation and safety often still support structured work.
Practically: Use a sequenced plan—timeouts, repair scripts, and weekly check-ins with metrics.
Emotionally: Trust or safety is eroding faster than repair lands; ambiguity becomes expensive.
Practically: Stop improvising; you need diagnosis-level clarity before bigger commitments.
Emotionally: Chronic contempt, betrayal loops, or one-sided effort collapse the repair window.
Practically: Protect safety first; treat this as a decision problem, not a persuasion problem.
What people get wrong
- Staying too long — mistaking intermittent relief for structural repair.
- Leaving too early — quitting before safety and repair capacity were actually tested with a real protocol.
Full Salvage Probability Assessment
The complete diagnostic ($300) is the funnel anchor when you are done guessing and ready for a decision-grade readout.
Take full Salvage Probability Assessment ($300)System context: Attachment system hub · Stay/leave decision framework